Morning

you curled around me -
shield from the unwelcome dawn.
you alone are home.

haiku - August 2012

Petals

I wish I could pluck sentences 

from the garden of our conversations,

press them between pages of memories

filling the shelves in the back rooms of my mind.

If I could, I would

preserve the blooms of your words,

keep them for the sake of never forgetting

you - reckless, hopeful, flawed.

Stanzas of our most vivid moments

have already fossilized in my heart,

have lost all color and life - for now.

Maybe a few lines have survived our chaos.

Maybe someday I’ll be sitting a mountain,

paging through dusty volumes of this time

and I’ll find whisper-thin love-daises

faded and off white from the decay 

of our mutual longing.

Maybe I’ll keep them.

Maybe I’ll let them fall apart 

in my hand, and the faintest refrain 

of their petals falling will sing -

you love me, you love me not.

poem - June 2012

Scream

My relationship with you

reminds me of walking by a carnival;

close your eyes and

it could be joy

or a slaughter.

poem - August 2012

Elegy

Run away with me, keep going till 

we finally loosen our fierce grip on real.

Tell me, explain this life-wreck.

Answer me, are we here or have we strayed?

I swear this, promise it, some days all I want is

cigarette smoke all around, flinty glances drifting 

through the haze, smoldering love sparking burning 

through veins and the sweet basic release of skin on skin on skin.

Other days I can’t think about anything but young summer 

evenings at the creek and finding snakes and climbing escaping

into trees and crying into sudsy sinks - slimy dishes and blame for all the world's ills,

and more dishes - and running running running through the corn fields and 

tag-you're-it and sprinting heaving lurching fleeing through 

that sudden july thunderstorm pitching sadness anger bitterness into the wind 

and arms legs face into the hail.

This is for the incessant dragging riptide of my adolescent years. 

This is for the house I might have loved and the

first time I snuck out of it. This is for the 

city I wished to call home and the 

brother I grieved for while he lived. This is for the 

boy I loved then and even now and the 

sound of his voice over the telephone. This is for the 

coffee-shop on the corner of that north virginia town and the 

raspberry chai that flavored a lonely year away and the 

art studio that saved me. This is for 

you and your goddamn gorgeous mind.

And when I think that someday I might look at a little girl with a 

familiar ski-jump nose and bright old-soul eyes and know that she might

grow into someone who could write her own elegy of a young life with

the same worries and joys and losses and longings,

a knot of contradictions pierced by bright and dark strings strung 

permanently through other people’s hearts,

well it sometimes

makes me weary 

and it sometimes

gives me hope.

I must remember to tell her to travel light as often as possible.

poem - January 2012

Reclaimed

I thought I was growing up faster by giving myself away,

lending my bad traits out, wrapping my uniqueness in star-printed paper.

I realize now that I’m in the business of reclaiming myself.

I didn’t know 

I wanted to take me back.

I didn’t know.

I need to admire my hair because it makes me want to shake about

and dance and groove and spin and bounce along with my curls,

not because you once told me you could lose yourself in its twists and turns.

I long to look at my stomach in the mirror and love it 

for its soft stretch-marked record of the days 
I spent stumbling into the word ‘woman,’

not hate it for the time he took the extra food off my plate 
and patted my belly as if to say,
“no no, this is your fault, you are better than this.”

He was right. I am better than that.

I’m better than that old mental snapshot of myself, 

sectioned limb from limb into a million fragments of other people’s opinions. 

I am the sum total of all the times I’ve laughed so hard I cried. 

I am the cumulative effect of all the moments I’ve spent 

running in a thunderstorm and smiling at fireflies.
I am the gold flecks in my eyes in the sunlight, with
or without mascara. I am made entirely of the glowing moments,

like pressing my back to the grass, staring at stars on stars and feeling 

so lifted yet within my body, stretched out upon the ground.

I want to adore my feet for the places they’ve carried me, 

for the shoes they’ve danced to shreds and the cliffs they’ve sprung off,

not avoid looking too hard at them in fear of remembering the day 

you massaged the hurt out of them, because it inevitably reminds me 

that you’re not going to take my heart in your hands and squeeze 

it till it fits back together again like a hunk of clay, no scars, new.

I ache to accept that my heart is not something to be fixed,

that it can proudly wear the layered glaze of every person I’ve known,

that all the colors of their laughs and words and sweet sighs 
can mix, swirl, melt, harden -
and I can wear it around my neck,
hanging a little to the left,

like a pendant to be proud of - 
not a martyr’s bleeding heart,

but a precious gift to me, reclaimed

and to you, forgiven.

poem - July 2012

Praise

(part of the series; Love letters with Modest Mouse)

you were the dull sound of sharp math when you were alive, 

no one’s gonna play the harp when you die.

the irony of our last name strikes me today,

the name I inherited at birth - laudadio, lauda dio -

it means “praise god” in your father’s first language,

italian - a riot of gorgeous sounds I grew to love between 

my stooped grandfather’s natural stutter.

lauda dio, the epitome of roman catholic doctrine.

yes, praise god because it makes you good and righteous and holy,

until it doesn’t anymore, or never did in the first place.

after all, you cannot expand from loving, praising, admiring anyone 

who forces it out of you, who requires your dedication as a means to an end.

Better to praise the gods in our fellow stumblers, 

wanderers, strugglers and pretenders.

Better to love one another for the holy hell of a fight 

they face when simply opening their eyes every morning. 

Better to praise them for getting out of bed anyway. 

Better to love them when they just can’t do it that day. 

Better to believe that within every single person 

is the same spirit that lifts inside of you when fireworks burst, 

when thunder cracks, when your dog wiggles and runs and jumps 

and barks and smiles at the sight of you coming home.

Goddamn, if we could all love each other like that.

Better to understand that punishment is just another way to express selfishness.

No, it is not lost on me that you can only praise the god of yourself,

I felt the truth of it clock me in the heart 

on the day that fact became the means to our end.


poem - April 2012

Knowing

I’ve known horrible.

Disaster hailstorms on the heart,

break-your-soul months,

tears trapped in well-meaning jars,

landslides of secret wishes into the abyss.

I’ve known tragic.

Families who’ve tripped over

love - their every move forward

cracked the surface of good intentions,

plunged into ice-cold regret.

I’ve known sorrow.

I could tell you of a life 

I spent walking on eggshells,

the weight of my every step

too heavy to keep the peace.

But - and this is the secret

to waking up with the dawn 

and knowing you’re ready 

to live 

another day -

I’ve known beautiful.

I’ve seen that sometimes, 

if you remember to look,

the moon summons her smile 

through a perfect tree-branch frame.

I’ve known luck;

I’ve loved people with more depth than a skydive.

poem - June 2012